I'm in love with anime guys, help!?

-I'm 14 and I've only ever watched two animes in my life (shugo chara and tokyo mew mew)

yet in each one, ive developed a really strong crush, even love on one of the charactors. I still have intrest in real guys, but im kinda nerdy so guys at my school dont take intrest in me. I've never had a boyfriend and im a total romantic, but latley these crushes have been bothering me. Also its not cos im in love with the 'perfect guy' in anime, as i found myself falling in love with Kisshu from Tokyo Mew Mew, and hes got loads of flaws. Am i normal? What can i do to get over these crushes? Please, no harsh comments telling me to get a life or telling me to stop watching anime. Please helpThis is totally normal! Why do they bother you? Just enjoy the feeling of love you have, it's a good feeling isn't it?

You don't need a 'real' boyfriend. What are the things you love about these characters? What flaws do they have? Do you have these flaws yourself? How do you feel about them? Explore why you love these characters, and you may learn something about yourself! <3
I can understand how it feels to have a crush on a fictional character, when I was 6 or 7 I had a crush on Sora from Digimon, silly huh but I got over it and you will too everyone has had feelings for at least one fictional character it's kinda natural.
You're 14. You don't know what love is, and honestly, having a crush on a fictional character is really stupid. You are fourteen. You don't need a boyfriend, what you need is to get a life. You are too young to be dating and there is zero chance you'd ever be able to date a fictional character.



Grow up.
I would say at your age these crushes are quite normal... It would be bad if they persist after you're an adult though. I think looking for a boyfriend in real life could help you get over these anime characters, or even having other sorts of distractions like going out with friends, pursuing your hobbies. Good luck!
hehe you have a crush :)

i doubt you know what love is .. only way to get over a "more serious" crush is to get a different one :P



in your case a real-life alternative ;)
Ok for a 14 year old girl this is definitely not normal. Maybe if you 4-8 but you have get with reality its a CARTOON! I'd say you really need to make some guy friends. or get a boyfriend. I saw you say, Please, no harsh comments telling me to get a life or telling me to stop watching anime, but I'm going to advise you to stop watching it or at-least Tokyo mew mew; Not for a long time just for a little while. Aren't there any celebrities out there that you like or a attracted to? If you keep down a path like this where u find cartoon characters hot it will really damage your social life, because people will think your weird, crazy, etc. Trust me I've known people like that and life doesn't go so well for them as they get older. If I were you i would nip it in the bud right now and just say hey its a cartoon character; Ink and paper, and not real.



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okay, stop and breathe

you're young and you probably love the qualities that these anime guys have and you should look in them in real men. But you have to realize that these are factual men. Your in middle school so a lot of the guys are to too obsessed with themselves or trying to define that they are the biggest baddest guy out there dating the winning cheerleader. They are mostly into arm candy.

I would suggest stop watching the anime or tell yourself that these men are not real so you shouldn't be developing an emotional connection.

You're going through a lot of changes, and are on an emotional roller coaster. I am sure you will grow out of it.



Plus you don't want to end up like this guy:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VjJtmcJM-Rw